1. NEVER MENTION A BULLY

2. SKIP THE LIES AND FOCUS ON THE TRUTH,

3. REPEAT THE TRUTH OFTEN,  SIMPLY, IN PLAIN ENGLISH,

4. COMPLIMENT YOUR FRIENDS, THOSE YOU ADMIRE, EVEN YOUR OPPONENTS WHEN THEY MAKE VALID POINTS,

5. WHEN SOMEONE BULLIES YOU, SHOWER THEM WITH CARE AT FIRST, AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS ,

6. IF THEY PERSIST, CUT THEM OFF, SILENCE THEM, ELIMINATE THEM FROM YOUR PRESENCE, BUT DO NOT BECOME THEM OR STOOP TO THEIR LEVEL,

7. STOP CURSING, IT IS NOT DOING ANYONE ANY GOOD,

8. MAKE YOUR EVERY WORD EDUCATIONAL, INSTRUCTIONAL, FIND THE WORDS TO RISE BEYOND THIS TIME AND SPACE, SOMETHING LASTING, SOMETHING YOU WOULD LIKE TO HEAR FROM A HERO,

9. BE HEROIC, FOR THIS IS YOUR TIME IN HISTORY, AND THE OLD HEROES HAVE PASSED FROM THE SCENE,

10. OFFER HOPE, NOT FOOLISH DREAMS, BUT REALISTIC STEPS TOWARD SOMETHING, ANYTHING, BETTER.

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  Every human being, Is a walking encyclopedia, Infinite indigenous knowledge, Of local realities, That no one, Will ever, Fully know. Why do we walk past? We are discoverers, Above all else, We wander, To the farthest reaches, Of the earth. Why do we walk past? Melville, Conrad, Escaped to the high seas, To discover the world. But the boat, It contained infinite depths, Even deeper than the sea, That anyone dared ever discover. The journey to the strange other, The darkest, most dangerous, Most joyous, Adventure.  …

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  I wrote this during the Gaza war. I think the theme of dance is very important, post-quantum physics way to understand the complex interaction of enemies, how they build on each other, and what it must teach us in reverse. I am amazed at how much of a dance enemies have, how much they depend on each other’s worst behaviors. We know this scientifically but it is hard to internalize as a definition of fluid reality. All our debates are as if enemies are fixed entities not evolving with each other. We warriors for peace still do not know how to really counteract that. We have tried the arts, we have tried tourism, we have tried commerce, but the dance of death is more frightening and compelling to the masses. Why did the young generation succeed in the 1960’s to create a real alternative that attracted the masses, but …

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The stoics, the Epicurians, Taoists, Sufis, the Buddhists, all feel that the real prison is the human mind. I am still thinking.   http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hannibal_Directive The question now facing #Jews is how many #Palestinian lives should be sacrificed for one #Israeli soldier? 10? 100?   With children of #Syria#crdc and project Amal ou Salam   A budding #Syrian artist, generously giving his paintings away   A message of the children of #Syria   To be with victims in a time of war is to be @loss for words but not to be with them even one victim is to be @loss of your soul   #Syrians and #Turks deep in negotiations   The beginning and end of conflict prevention is gratitude. #peacebuilding   https://marcgopin.com/2014/08/23/urgent-on-syria/ please Share widely.  It is essential to both save #Syria from #ISIS and to use all parties for immediate ceasefire.   http://www.haaretz.com/mobile/.premium-1.611395?v=680CA1F8707230AE49358F9E70E58220 Only by facing the death of #democracy in #Israel can you fight for …

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It is a special agony leaving loved ones behind who go back to war. It is a special guilt that tears at the soul.  …

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It is a law: Violence begets nonviolence, Like a tulip in winter, In all places, In all cultures. But only those With eyes wide open Can see it, In the middle of Winter storms. The most important turning point for any civilization passing from darkness into light is every moment that a weapon passes from someone who has no self control and no compassion to someone who does.…

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  Reason and compassion are lovers That give birth to our humanity, but only when they engage Daily, with intensity. The more one’s mind is drawn daily to compassion For all sentient life, the more it is drawn daily to develop universal principles of behavior that apply to all beings Without exception, Even very imperfect beings. The more that reason is developed daily the more it becomes empirically clear that we are all the same, in 99% of our being, the more it becomes empirically self evident That where we are different it is an advantage, Our diversity is our strength. compassion and reason are lovers, So that we can be.   (Photo: Cultivating Leadership)…

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GOD An atheist leader who is rational, Can be more a messenger, of God’s mercy for the powerless, than a leader, who bows down to God, over the dead bodies, of his victims. ‘Less suffering’ Is the tortured scream of God. An authentic smile Is the fleeting face of God, A single act of kindness, The touch of Her finger. Only when you accept death, Can you become committed To the renewal of life. Only when you see democracy die, Can you plan its rebirth.…

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Every day in every region I meet young warriors who know not what they do, and aging warriors who regret everything they have done. I can do nothing before their folly except bear witness to humanity.   The stoics, the Epicureans, Taoists, the Sufis, the Buddhists, all feel that the real prison is the human mind. I am still thinking. (Photo: Tom Lynn/AP)…

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SHADES OF HEAVEN When a theologian of another religion says what you were thinking the moment before it comes out of your mouth #syria, with the Bosnian hero Father Ivo. BIRTH The warrior is born at 15000 feet, With the press of a thumb. The anti-warrior is born underneath cement, With the press of a shovel, Eyeing, The first, Grey, Thumb.   (Photo: Now Media)…

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